Okay guys, it's your turn to get a few good tips. Trust me.. these are good ones and you will want to pay attention. Go get you a notebook...
1. Women will not tell you how bad her feet and back hurt unless she can't move.
2. Women do not like making the decision on restaurants but you should, by now, know what foods she doesn't like. (i.e. I personally don't care for any Asian food... and when we go out for dinner it better not be drive through).
3. Women LOVE a man who can change the oil in her car... and even MORE when he does it without asking. That means he's paying attention and he's taking good care of his lady.
4. Appreciation.. THIS can be used once a week and in small doses (this is for the guy who has a very hard time showing it.. honestly, any and all appreciation is accepted with loving arms) and she will be a very happy woman.
5. If you know your lady has been slaving away all day at other things... DO NOT ask her "what's for dinner"... Cook it yourself if you don't already see her in the kitchen.
6. Laundry... PICK IT UP AND PUT IT IN THE HAMPER!
7.Toilet paper-----IT goes on a roll or the canister.. it does NOT go on the back of the toilet seat, the sink nor the floor. And please.. if you used the last one.. REPLACE IT.
8. A man who is confident but not arrogant is the most attractive. If you think controlling her by your manipulative ways is going to last forever. you have another thing coming.
9. If she is crying and you don't know why... just hold her. Don't ask her why.. don't bother her with words because she can't speak them properly at the moment. Believe me.. she will talk when she's ready. (Women usually don't have a problem letting you know how she feels..
10. If you come home guilty of something, she will figure it out and women are really good detectives when their gut is telling them something. Don't take that for granted.
11. If you want to attract her, get to KNOW her... find out what attracts her.. Take care of yourself. Get baths in, brush your teeth, shave in a way that is both comfortable but at least sharp looking. Don't walk around like a slob or scrub.. you know better than that. If you already do these things (good for you but remember number 8) then start working on what SHE likes to do.. be nice to her verbally.
12. Quit looking for a problem and start looking for the solution.
13. Don't get mad at her when you are trying to teach her something or you asked her to do something.. if she didn't do it properly... either show her calmly the best way or don't even tell her you didn't like how she did it because eventually she will stop coming to you for any help.
14. Be her emotional rock once in awhile. She considers you her rock on so many other things that when the world is weighing her down, she needs you to bring her back up.
15. Just be a man. Don't expect from her if you personally aren't willing to compromise. You grew up in a world where you compromised, being with a woman is no different. So get over it, suck it up and start working hard at being the best version of you. If you think it's not worth it.. then how do you expect her to?
Those are my tid bits for the day.
Good luck men!
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